How to get the most of networking events big or small….

Sixty-five percent of businesses join a Chamber because of networking so it’s important to know how to best take advantage of every opportunity presented.

Here are seven tips that are sure fire winners.

1. Cultivate a genuine interest in seeing others succeed…. and help them do it:

When you meet somebody for first time focus all your attention on asking probing questions to learn about THEM such as: What brings you here today? Who are you trying to connect with? Who would be an ideal prospect for you? What is your biggest frustration?

2. Listen…Listen…. and then Listen some more:

When engaged in a conversation, BEFORE you respond to somebody, pause and briefly summarize what you just heard before you share what you were going to say.  This is a simple yet powerful technique to make the other person feel understood and demonstrates that you care what they have to say.

3. The “Three Second Rule”

As soon as you enter a room, start a conversation with the first person you see within the first 3 seconds.  DO NOT HESITATE, don’t look for somebody you know and don’t go to the bar.  It doesn’t matter who you approach, just go talk to somebody!

The goal here is to build confidence, get outside ‘your head’ and build the habit of proactively meeting people.  At most events there is usually a registration desk.  Try and view this as the “warm up”.  Use this opportunity to speak to the person beside you as you sign in or receive your name tag.

4. The soft touch:

You may have noticed what typically happens at networking events is people form small groups (usually consisting of friends or office colleagues) who then talk amongst themselves.  This situation presents a challenge for most people.

Here is a very non-threatening way to approach one of these groups if you know somebody in the group (even if you don’t know them very well).  As you are walking by simply “soft touch” the person you know on the shoulder, smile, and say hi, making sure to address them by their name.  Don’t motion to shake their hand, and instead simply give a small wave as you keep walking (shaking hands is usually too much of a commitment in this situation). This seemingly small gesture accomplishes the following goals:

a) Strengthening the relationship with the person you know.
b) In some situations the individual will stop you and say “James, have you met…..” and bring you into the group to introduce you to everybody else (although this is a possibility- do not expect it)
c) It gives you unconscious face time with the other people in that group.  Some of them will notice you and you now have a small connection with them for generating a future conversation.
d) If you really wanted to meet somebody from that group and didn’t get an opportunity to at the event, you can call the person you know and say “Hey I noticed you speaking to….I would love to meet them. Would you mind introducing us?”

5. Smile

The whole time smiling conveys happiness, fun, positive, and so many other great emotions!   Maya Angelou is quoted as saying

“I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”

This is profound. How do you want to make people feel?

6. Introduce people to each other:

Anytime you have a chance to introduce people who can benefit from knowing each other do it.  Sending a quick email introduction is a great habit to get into.

“Help enough people get what they want and you’ll get what you want” – Zig Zigler

7.  Keep in touch by sending things of value:

Most people contact others when they want something.  This is okay once in a while, but if this is the only instance in which you touch base with somebody, sooner or later they are not going to screen your calls.  Ironically, you can have a lot of success in doing the complete opposite.  If 80% of the time you contact somebody to offer them something of interest or value they are going to open your email or take your call every time.

A simple way to do this is keeping your eyes open for events, articles, and blogs that would interest your contacts. Other ideas include sending email introductions or cards to congratulate them for achieving success or maybe offering tickets to a sports game or event that they may enjoy.  These little gestures go a long way if you are doing it because you genuinely care.  You will not only grow your relationship with that individual but they will WANT to hear what you have to say every time you contact them.  In addition to making somebody else feel good you will personally feel like a million dollars when you make the time do something like this!

Follow these simple rules of engagement and your success rate at networking will increase the very first time you practice them.

 I hale from Saskatchewan, which has its own hail, lots of it, they insure it. They also have mud…rich, ooey, gooey, squish between your toes mud, Saskatchewan Gumbo it’s called. . So it was with great enthusiasm that I got involved when the chamber announced they were putting on a mud run. Kathie and I drove around searching for large empty lots and calling complete strangers asking to use their land.  All was well until directed to their legal departments; that muddied up the waters very quickly. We went back and forth slinging mud with the legal departments, ending up with mud on our faces when we had to cancel the first run date. We continued to wallow with the lawyers and they muddled along wasting time again. At this point in time, we decided to pack up our mud pies. Once we gave up our mud quest, light bulbs went off in our heads and we followed the path of enlightenment to the Orange County Fairgrounds last November. We were all aglow watching and participating in an Electric Run. Watching thousands of participants lit up like Christmas trees from head to toe, stroller to trike, moms and dads, toddlers to teens, and fun seekers from far and wide, it was, well quite electrifying. We knew we had to bring this illuminating experience to Redlands, and so we have.  December 14, 2013 is the date for The Chamber Night Light Run.  The committee is all pumped up and working hard to make this a bright spot in the holiday season. So gather your friends and beam as a team, paint up your face and get your glow on.  Mark December 14, as a “Save the Date”.  THIS IS GOING TO BE FUN!

Our ever vigilant chamber of commerce was once again at the forefront of gathering the troops (This time it was our wonderful nonprofit community) to battle some city council members who wanted to stop waiving the “hard cost” fees for local non-profit organization putting on special events in Redlands. While the chamber understands and even applauds an effort to save the city money, this was clearly a case of not seeing the big picture. By not waiving the hard cost fees some of our longtime events, The Christmas Parade, The Bicycle Classic, The Run Through Redlands, The Fourth of July Spectacular, and even the Redlands Bowl summer programs, could be severely impacted. The increased costs could even shut down some of these long standing events. There could be a real loss of revenue to the City, fewer scholarships would have been distributed, and less money reinvested back into the community if that were to happen. Without having to “storm the Bastille” on Sept 3 Council Meeting, the item in question has been postponed but could rear its ugly head again in the future. The chamber will continue to monitor the issue and will keep you posted.

In the meantime, enjoy what is left of the summer and as the Happenings would sing….  “See You in September”.

The requirement that businesses provide their workers with health insurance or face fines will be delayed by one year.

The delay came after business owners expressed concerns about the complexity of the law’s reporting requirements, the Internal Revenue Department reported. Under the Affordable Care Act, businesses employing 50 or more full-time workers that don’t provide them health insurance will be penalized.

Business groups had argued for months that the law created an administrative burden for businesses as they tried to update technology and plan to offer health coverage to their employees without knowing how much the coverage would cost.

The delay gives the IRS more time to simplify reporting requirements, as well as for businesses to get up to speed with reporting systems. The government still encourages businesses to voluntarily begin reporting in 2014 so they will be ready for 2015.

Supporters of the employer mandate note that most firms already provide health insurance to full time workers, and downplay the effect the requirement would have on small businesses, citing figures showing the vast majority of small businesses employ fewer than 50 workers.

Opponents claim the employer mandate is a potential job killer, saying businesses near the 50-worker cutoff will be unlikely to ramp up hiring if it means they’re required to provide employ The delay gives the IRS more time to simplify reporting requirements, as well as for businesses to get up to speed with reporting systems. The government still encourages businesses to voluntarily begin reporting in 2014 so they will be ready for 2015.

The new delay will not affect other aspects of the health law, including the establishment of exchanges in states for low-income Americans to obtain health insurance.  It also does not change the individual mandate, which requires most Americans to purchase insurance.

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